What would I say?

What would I say if I could? I would say this.

Yes, Caleb was upset last night after talking to you. Yes, this whole situation is bothering him, and me. Yes, things are going to be different now. Why do things have to be different you ask? Because Caleb is married. He has a family. He is making his own decisions now. Where does the problem come in? It comes in at the part where I said Caleb is making his own decisions now. Why is that the problem? Because you all still want to make his decisions for him. AND if he happens to make one that you all don't agree with you blow a fuse. Why is this the problem? Because even though you may not see it, you are crippling his and my relationship. Why? Because he loves his family but he loves his wife. He is torn and you guys are ripping his heart out and stomping it into the ground. Yes, its true. That is the blunt truth of what is going on. You may not want to accept that or say its true, but if there is one thing that I have from my father, that's the ability to read people like a book. I can read you and your family, you will not let him go. You want to hold on to him and make him be your little boy, when he is a grown man about to have ANOTHER child of his own. How do you not see that you are making his life hard to live right now? How do you not see that his and my relationship is struggling. I will tell you how you do not see it. Because all you are doing is thinking about yourself and saying "woe is me, things aren't like they used to be". Welcome to the world of change. Welcome to the world of growing up. Things are going to be different and if Caleb and my relationship is going to keep struggling, I am going to stand up to you all and tell you this to your face. If you don't like it, then fine, but don't say that I am not fighting for what I believe in. Don't even tell me that I am wrong because I am doing what I think is right. You have no bearing on that.

Why does everything need to be so drawn out and difficult???? That is the question